Wednesday, 27 January 2016

Get motivated, get up, answer your calling and motivate others along the way!

To be an inspiration or motivation to someone is a great achievement in life. We think only the greatly successful and famous are idol that can motivate or inspire people. Life has been tough for them, life has treated them bad and they have surfaced to the horizon, struggling through the dark nights.

But this is not the only definition of anyone who can be a motivator. Anyone can be a motivation, yes people like you and I can inspire others. The scale of motivation or inspiration may be small, but yes, it is true that you can inspire someone.

The other day I saw a post on facebook in which I was tagged. My sister had played some game and the results said, I was her mirror personality. She had put up the post saying I am motivated for being like my Didi – that is what she calls me, meaning elder sister.

I was surprised, yet glad to see that, I could motivate someone. But on further reflection I thought, I don’t need to be someone famous or great to be an inspiration. She has always liked to spend time with me and follow everything I do. She studied whatever I told her, she dressed like me, put on accessories like me, developed confidence, speaking skills, street smartness, and other living traits just like me. Unknowingly she has always tried to be like me.

I am not happy that she is like me, but I am happy that she has picked up all the good traits that I might have showed her while she was growing up. It is not that I want her to be like me, but I am happy that she is motivated to be like me.

Being the eldest in the family, it sets me in the position to become the idol for everyone, and I am glad to know that I have succeeded in doing so to a certain extent.

In the Indian scenario, the eldest sibling has to be the best to set examples for the younger ones, it sometimes seems as a burden, but then today I feel have achieved the difficult task and am glad to know that someone feels motivated by being like me.

Another incident that sets me to believe that everyone can be an inspiration is because we need inspiration for smaller things in life, and those turn out to be the most important. In a simple chat with a friend, she said, she was feeling tired of getting up for yoga in the morning. But then she thought of me and said, this girl gets up at four in the morning to do things for others. Can’t I get up 20 minutes early to fit in my yoga routine? And the only one who will benefit from it will be me.

This is also a form of motivation or inspiration, each one can find reasons to be motivated by others and each one can be an inspiration to others. Feel no less about oneself. Move on, do things you like, achieve you goals, design your destiny, don’t worry about becoming famous or filthy rich to be someone’s motivation. Along the journey of life there will be many things we learn from others and others learn from us.


Get motivated, get up, answer your calling and motivate others along the way!

Kiran V Pandit

Thursday, 14 January 2016

#RIP #ALANRICKMAN

RIP #AlanRickman I will never miss you...
because you will be here in my heart…
#ALWAYS!


Shit Man it hurts!!!


I am a grown up working professional, married into a typical Indian, Marathi household, mother of a eight month old… and blah blah blah Indian lady. But all this, I am unashamed to admit, that is hurts... Big Time! It does not come in my way of loving the characters I have grown up with me. They are more real to me than the people around me. I have known them much better than the family and friends I have had. (Actually not friends… I love my friends and that is the same I love these characters.)



It is just another person dead and gone to many, but me being a person who has grown up reading and watching Harry Potter, living those characters, being one with them, I feel perturbed to the normalcy I see among everyone who haven’t seen what #AlanRickman was and how he brought #Professor #Severus #Snape to be the badass and the hero.
The news came out yesterday, and I tried to be as normal as possible. Though I am going about my daily business as usual, even for a moment I am unable to forget that #AlanRickman has greeted death as an old friend and walked with him to the next best adventure!

I have only seen two people leave me and go, from this #Muggle World even if I am grown up. My grandfather and my grandmother and have known loss only in 2012. Yes, many many losses have been a part of my life, as is for all the #Potterheads, right from #Dobby to #Fred, to #Lupin&Tonks, #Sirius everyone…. But when the news of #AlanRickman hit me, the loss was something different.

Of course when a family members or friends from the #MuggleWorld pass on to their next adventure, we all gather and mourn as a family, but when someone like Alan is gone, the whole potterverse is devastated and mourning in the Muggle world. I am unable to show my grief to people around me who are oblivious to the potterworld. To the prof. Snape who scared the hell out of everyone with just one look – As I sit and mourn for this loss, people around me ask me, whats wrong, or whats going in your mind and I hear #PeopleWillThinkYouAreUPTOSOMETHING.


Ahh that voice, I will never forget that voice when I first heard the line, #ThereWillBeNoFoolishWandWavingOrSillyIncantationsInThisClass, the deep voice that could freeze you is gone behind the #Veil. 



But be sure that his presence in the world through the movies, through our hearts will be there, after all, some stories never leave us. He will be there, after any number of years, after any span of time… ALWAYS!

Kiran V Pandit
#APotterHead